Hello, I have been arguing with my husband about his and my priorities. My husband feels he is no 2. I feel I'm the last person in his life after his family and his daughter from a previous relationship. Why? Well, it's simple. We got married in Nov 2015. He asked me to get rid of my dog which I couldn't. My dog is an attention seeker and when my husband upsets me, I always stroke the dog. Before Xmas we didn't have any plans to go to Romania. We changed our mind and rushed there, not before going shopping for his daughter. What did I get for Xmas? Money!!!!! He didn't have time to go shopping for my present. How did I feel? ZERO. REDUCED TO NOTHINGNESS. Valentine's Day. You would think people learn from their mistakes. He didn't get paid before, made no effort to get me a present. I got a card and flowers. I got him a present, red candles, red artificial petals, card, booked a table for dinner and disco. It's his daughter's birthday this month. Guess what? She's getting her present. Me? I was on the list initially but lack of funds made him choose.As you can probably guess...I lost again. He keeps saying he loves me. Maybe I am superficial. Yes, I would like to get presents but who doesn't?I am good at doing house choirs, working long hours, when it comes to feel appreciated, loved, cherished, well that's another story. Am I wrong? What am I missing?